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How to Spot and Handle Entitled Behaviour in Men
Have you ever been in a coffee shop, enjoying the aroma of fresh coffee, only to witness someone loudly complaining that their latte is not exactly 140 degrees?
Maybe you have seen a guy berating a barista over a splash of almond milk instead of soy.
It is the kind of overreaction that turns heads and makes everyone cringe.
It is the kind of scene that makes everyone around uncomfortable.
We have all heard of “Karen,” the go-to name for entitled behaviour in women, but what about men who act the same way?
What do we call them?
Grab a cup of coffee (at the right temperature, of course), and let us dive into the fascinating world of the “Male Karen.”
We will explore what they are called, where this term originated, and, most importantly, how to handle these situations like a pro.
What Is The Male Version Of A Karen?
Knowing their tendencies can help you respond effectively when handling a Male Karen.
Ah, the million-dollar question!
While “Karen” has cemented itself in pop culture as shorthand for entitled, over-the-top behaviour, there is no definitive male equivalent.
Cultural dynamics often shape how entitlement is perceived across genders.
Male entitlement can sometimes be seen as less socially egregious due to traditional expectations, making it harder to pinpoint a single, universally accepted name.
However, that has not stopped the internet from coming up with suggestions!
Some of the most popular contenders are:
- Kevin
- Greg
- Terry
- Ken (although Barbie fans might take offence!)
Some people stick to “Male Karen” because, let us face it, the behaviour speaks louder than the name.
Imagine calling out, “Stop being such a Male Karen!” Chances are, everyone in the room knows exactly what you mean.
However, why is there a lack of a single, agreed-upon name?
The archetype of a Male Karen may be more varied.
From the guy with the flat-top buzzcut demanding to “speak to the manager” to the neighbour policing everyone’s lawn, these behaviours are as diverse as the men who exhibit them.
Who Exactly Is A Karen (Or Male Karen)?
Let us get one thing straight: being a Karen is not about gender—it is about attitude. A Karen (or Male Karen) is someone who:
- Demands special treatment for no valid reason.
- Escalates minor issues into major dramas.
- Loves to police others’ behaviour, often punching down at those with less power, like service workers or neighbours.
Think of it as a mindset of entitlement. Male Karens, in particular, often mask their insecurity with arrogance or a need for control.
They are the guys who turn a simple inconvenience into a personal crusade—and everyone else pays the price.
Where Did The Term “Karen” Come From?
To understand the Male Karen, we must reflect on where it all began.
The term “Karen” exploded into public consciousness around 2018, thanks to viral videos of women misbehaving—calling the cops on kids selling lemonade or harassing families having a barbecue in the park.
These videos not only showcased entitlement but also highlighted systemic issues like racism and classism, sparking widespread conversations about privilege and accountability.
As these clips circulated online, they raised societal awareness, encouraging people to recognise and call out similar behaviours in their communities.
Some infamous examples include:
- BBQ Becky: She called the police on a Black family barbecuing in a public park.
- Golfcart Gail: She dialled 911 while her father cheered at his son’s football game.
While the behaviour existed long before, the name “Karen” gave us a quick, easy way to describe entitled, often discriminatory actions.
Over time, it expanded to include anyone, regardless of gender, who acts selfishly and disruptively.
Dealing With A Male Karen
Handling a Male Karen is a skill worth mastering.
Entitled individuals can ruin an otherwise peaceful day, but knowing how to de-escalate their drama can keep the situation under control.
We have all been there—stuck in a checkout line behind someone, making everyone’s life harder.
Dealing with entitled individuals can be tricky, but tactfully approaching the situation can make all the difference.
Here is how to handle a Male Karen without losing your cool:
1. Stay Calm, And Do Not Escalate
Male Karens thrive on drama. They see themselves as victims and use confrontation as their weapon of choice. The best response? Stay calm and composed. If you are a bystander, avoid engaging directly unless it is necessary.
2. Stand Up For Others
Often, Male Karens target someone else, like a cashier or waiter. If you are in a safe position to do so, speak up. A simple “Hey, let us cut them some slack” can go a long way in showing solidarity.
3. Record The Interaction
Let us face it: entitled people rarely take responsibility for their actions. If things are escalating, record the interaction on your phone. It is not just for TikTok clout; it is evidence in case things get out of hand.
4. Reflect: If You Are Called A Karen
What if someone calls you a Male Karen? Ouch. However, before you get defensive, take a step back. Ask yourself if your behaviour might have come across as entitled or unreasonable. If it was, own up and make it right. We all have off days.
Similar Terms For Entitled Behaviour
The Male Karen is not alone in the world of entitled archetypes.
Here are some other terms you might hear:
| Term | Definition | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Narc | Short for “narcotics agent” but slang for a snitch or tattletale. | “He told HR about a 2-minute coffee break. What a narc.” |
| Becky | Refers to a younger woman oblivious to her privilege. | “That Becky thinks waiters are beneath her.” |
| Chad | Describes an overly confident, dominant man. | Not exactly a Karen, but his swagger might overshadow common courtesy. |
Final Thoughts
Male Karens reflect entitlement and insecurity wrapped in a need for control.
Whether you call them Kevin, Greg, or just a Male Karen, their behaviour disrupts everyday life and puts others in awkward or unfair situations.
The next time you encounter one, remember to stay calm, stand up for others, and, if necessary, document the behaviour.
Do you have a story to share about dealing with a Male Karen?
We would love to hear it!
Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts in the comments below.
Moreover, if you are ever accused of being a Karen yourself, do not panic. Reflect, grow, and leave the drama behind.
Now it is your turn: What is the best name for a Male Karen? Have you ever dealt with one? Share your story in the comments below!
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